Showing posts with label letting. Show all posts
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Monday, September 12, 2011

The Art of Letting It Go

"The Art of Letting It Go" is one particular thing that I have haven't yet mastered. But my individual experiences in life have made clear to me certain lessons that have allowed me to discover my potential in a intriguing way. Following my intuition. I suggest that we all have an innate ability to sense situations. It is truly is our sixth sense. Dogs and cats have it. Animals in the wild have got it. Most scientists would call that instinct.

We all surely have an instinct to recognize when a situation is bad or wonderful, including individuals when you first meet them. Whether or not Agnostic or Christian, the cosmic forces of nature or the holy spirit presenting to you. We ALL have this capability. I believe that we are certainly guided by forces out of our control. The Art of Letting It Go is the power to take note and go wherever that intuition is advising you. I also believe however that as human beings all of us have the extraordinary capacity and obligation to do good. Pursuing a raw instinct to injure, or extinguish life is never the eventual plan and this is what differentiates us from the rest of the animal kingdom.

Social Experiment 1

Eye contact. I have just recently become aware that I do not maintain adequate eye contact. Commencing today. Everyone you pass or meet, maintain eye contact with them until they look away. A small hint of a smile will add light to your eyes and convey warmth in the gaze. Even a nod can help separate yourself as a favorable person and not a psycho stalker. Do this for one week.

How much positive human connection did you receive?

Did you ever perceive anyone that seemed unhappy, sad, or pessimistic?

Social Experiment 2

For one week starting today. You will carry out every beneficial intuition that comes to your mind. If you believe you need to take a left instead of a right... don't doubt. Just do. Wake up every day for one week practicing the art of pursuing your intuition, no matter how silly it might seem. This is the ART.

Did you observe any change in the path of intuition, verses the path of resistance and indecision?

Do our daily mental tennis volleys of decisions keep you any safer than following your intuition?

Social Experiment 3

There are no coincidences. Coincidences are by definition "A remarkable concurrence of incidents or circumstances without obvious causal connection." I do not believe that is true in most cases. I think that every chance happening is just that, chance. But if you see a person, or hear about anything 3 times or more in a short amount of time. This is not coincidence, this is not chance. Don't minimize yourself to what "short amount of time" means. Just pay attention to it, and then stick to your instincts. You never know why the "coincidence" is occurring, just be mindful of what it might be. Pay attention to this for the next week, starting today.

These three experiments can be accomplished at any time. Simply start all three now, or break this up week by week. It doesn't matter. It's a social experiment and I would welcome any tips or viewpoints.

I think that people need to step back from the control of life, to one of submission to life. If we "let it go" and allow for it to guide us. Its astounding the alternatives that unfold. I believe some call it "Faith", Others call it "Cosmic Intuition." Either way, don't fight it. Simply float down that river.


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Saturday, July 23, 2011

Delivery - letting go of the results

For years, I have used the phrase-, to something higher performance result. I use not only the set; Actually, I thought that I was given. Oh, I talked the language of the surrender, and then I went on my own business, things to do, how I thought that it should be done. If I had a problem, I exhausted any solution, "I could imagine". Yes, I controlled, what would happen next.

Today I heard beautiful speech of a spiritual teacher where he shared his understanding of the surrender. It is easier to demonstrate with a real example. Suppose you have a money problem. Perhaps you're going not in a position, your mortgage this month pay, because you lost your work be. Their first inclination would be run at the Bank or financial advisor and get him or her to give you the money or a break. This is not like the concept of surrender. This is you control how things are to be.

Surrender is all about the result let go and transfer to the higher makes. Use the same example - let us consider how it would play if you leave the problem of higher power.
You are facing financial trouble, and you know that you won't be able to pay your mortgage on time. In past, would you fell out of the Bank to get some advice, where you could get the money, or what are your options. But do not at this time. This time you will become the issue to a higher power to give.

As a person who prays, could pray over him and say something like "father, I am having trouble money - I don't know what you do about it." I am to hand it you going over. "I can not know what to do, but I know that you have much more wisdom than I." Then wait for insight. You can literally - sit back and worry don't go. Put it out of your mind. Create a quiet time - meditate, if you can.

Let's look at another example.

These neighbors have been give you a hard time for a while now. You can put your home on the market and leave the neighborhood. Your first impulse may be run next door and your friend talk, bemoan him, a little and please what he would do in similar circumstances. Is keeping in mind, surrender not have you come with solutions on their own. Run next door and complaints is a friend not surrender - if something complicated the situation even worse.

Give up, as already mentioned, must bring you the performance, let not care about the result, and wait to do inspiration on what is. The inspiration may be, that you could ask a neighbor or a trusted friend for advice. The difference here would be that you are not using the solution - makes the higher has.

Natural royalties is about the things do not control. Surrender works better than control because you can be much more creative than you could have thought on your own solutions with a clear and calm mind. Try it sometime. Let and see what happens.

Debbie Adams is an author, speaker and life coach, enjoys to move inspiring others on their own obstacles in life. Using examples from their own lives, it offers solutions to problems, are the best. In her spare time enjoys spend time with her daughter Alyssa, hiking and gardening. She lives in Nova Scotia, Canada.


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