Self-Development For Yourself

The tools that I have presented in previous articles can be very useful. I do find myself, for that matter the enthusiasm of the people I coach, that they begin to feel that they regain power over their lives! The sparkle and wonder in their eyes shows how many small changes can make all the difference.

You already have great power, but it explodes when you decide to use it better by taking concrete initiatives. When you take action, you start to believe you can revolutionize your life, and it is this belief which then allows you to succeed!

It is easy to read articles like these. What is really difficult is to update its content in every application. When reading strategies and personal management, and time management, you may feel that the lives of those who use them are set as a Swiss clock, leaving no room for freedom or chance.

If so, they fail miserably to live the values that matter most to heart and be happy. However, imbalance alone does not lead to happiness. A day that is too regulated will not necessarily aside beautiful aspects of life. In other words, do not go crazy with efficiency! Because the effects of continuous improvement are gradual, and one must never stop to enjoy the present moment.

I have presented a wide range of strategies you can use. Retain only those that best suit your personality and that are relevant to your goals. Time management and priorities, when properly used, should reduce the pains of life by adding value!

And here's one last question I ask. Why do you want to achieve? Of course, for yourself. But what you will taste in success? (okay, I guess it's rather two questions) When you gaze at the sky from the top of a mountain, ask yourself if you managed that yourself. Can you really succeed just for yourself? (fine, three questions then!)

No truly successful person does it solely for his personal benefit. If so, life quickly becomes meaningless and miserable. The vision becomes too limited.

The fact that you care about others is an endless source of satisfaction. This is love, a source to nurture life. Once you have achieved all the goals you want for yourself, do not forget to share with others what you receive!

At this point, you have passed the stage of personal achievement to reach that excess staff. This is the dimension that is the most accomplished and most "spiritual" in this great process in which you're engaged. Transcendence fundamentally affects the direction and mission that you give your life and participates in the collective work of humanity.

That's what sums up the phrase "Pay it Forward." The more and more you improve your motivation, the more you will also want to talk to others and help them. In short, you'll want to give back a hundredfold what you have received (while keeping what you have: confidence, esteem, joy, satisfaction, etc.).

Health & Happiness web magazine gives you the information about how to be happy and we all know that how important is it today to find happiness so as to prevent diseases and a key information to keep control on the most important part of our life. To know more about self-development, visit http://www.healthhappinessmag.com/

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No Healing Needed: Learning to Love Yourself

Recently I receive a direct message from the Divine: We don't need to focus on healing anymore. We must focus on self- love. If we focus on needing to heal, we focus on things outside of ourselves. All we need is to love ourselves more. To make ourselves accountable for loving ourselves. We cannot turn our back on ourselves anymore. We cannot find love outside of ourselves. What does self-love look like to you? What can I do to love myself more today? Write it down and make sure you do it before the day is completed before the day is over.

Being kind, loving, self-caring and compassionate to ourselves will change our life and the lives of all we touch. Once you do this, your life will forever be changed. Remember God is here with you and is One with you. I, you, and we need nothing from the external world. We use the world as a place to play out passion and to give and receive love... the evolution of our soul allows God to birth fully in us and in mother earth.

Immerse yourself in self-love and in your integrity as you stay in the present moment. Embrace yourself once and for all with a full heart - love yourself first and then others. No longer deny your wholeness because of your perceived limitations / imperfections. There are no limitations. Your process is almost complete. There is no need for you to judge each stroke of the brush - you are made in the likeness and image of Me (Father and Mother God). Perfect. There is nothing wrong with you that self-love will not correct, balance and stabilize.

If you are wondering where to put your next foot, don't wonder. Explore the new world with me. Let us play in this wonder as we spiral upward and leave the mundane and unpredictable behind. You are ready to take flight into a new life - one you have never had before. Let it excite you. Don't let it frighten you. Dance, Dream, and Rejoice in the mystery.

How is it that you became the chosen One? You earned the right to be the being of light you are. You sat with your counsel before you came to earth this time...you made a plan and called forth the players and the circumstances to enter your life at the right moments to refine and prepare you for what you are about to experience and then you took on form - you chose to be a master. You are now standing at the threshold of your greatness.

Your greatest challenge is stabilizing yourself in an unstable external environment. You have all you need to do this. Your greatest resource/tool is love. Love for yourself at every turn and at every moment of your life, you are learning more about self-love.

You will learn more as you get together with other like-minded brothers and sisters and grow and evolve as you gain and access more and more knowledge and wisdom. It is not enough to have fleeting moments of self-love. Your full awakening depends on self-love above beyond all else. I love you and I need You to love Yourself, right now.

Learn everything you can about self-love and move into it fully. That is your purpose. That is your job. That is what is important now and beyond all else, it is your love for yourself that will get you through the smallest eye of the needle and it is the love for yourself that will propel you over the rainbow bridge from one world to the next during this year and next (2012).

Embrace yourself with a full heart. Love Yourself. We love You! Namaste.

LaTresa is a heart-centered transformational life coach and intuitive spiritual counselor who works directly with the Ascended Masters. LaTresa provide private spiritual counseling and facilitates group coaching with the Ascended Masters, where you can get YOUR questions answered directly. Visit our site at http://www.guidancefromthemasters.com/ to connect with the Ascended Masters and find one-of-a-kind Tachyon jewelry and transformational tools.

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How to Be Yourself in Your Business and Personal Life

I think comedian Lily Tomlin accurately expressed how many of us have felt most of our lives when she said, "I always wanted to be somebody, but now I realize I should have been more specific."

Of course, the most ideal person you should be is YOURSELF; however, the idea of being oneself is not as simple as it sounds. And as a result we become uncomfortable in our own skin and even stressed out when we are in social or public settings.

Let's face it, most people spend their lives hiding from their own reflection trying fervently to be anyone but them selves, and surround themselves with people who support that facade. But we're not fugitives here, folks!

A lot of our society is built on changing something about our selves. We change our physique, the way we dress, our hair color, our accent, our race and everything else under the sun. It's really no surprise that there are entire books written on how to be ourselves.

Unfortunately, in various ways a lot of us came to the resolution early on that we ourselves are not good enough.

In terms of business this is the epitome of branding homicide. Factoid -- YOU are all you've got. If you try to be anything else but YOU it starts to emit phoniness. But how do you uncover to the real you?

Well here are some steps to help you on you enjoy the journey of being you and at the same time it can help you create a brand for your business that you can live with and love.

Embrace All That You Are

Essentially this means accept yourself exactly as you are right now -- Flaws and All! Give your self a break from your inner critic. Just for today -- stop trying to change anything about yourself, including your bad habits. I'm not saying to continue on the path of self-destruction, but even for a moment be okay with exactly who you are right now. Within those flaws are strengths that can be used for something good in life when you are able to step back and look at them from a different perspective and find a new meaning and purpose for what was once considered a shortcoming.

Explore What You Secretly Dislike or Even Hate About Your Life

What are you currently doing in your life that you really secretly hate? You may not even realize you hate it, whatever "it" is. For example: do you wear professional business attire for work everyday because you think you have to dress that way to impress others, but you'd really feel much more comfortable in a nice pair of jeans and a fashionable shirt and comfy shoes. What other secret dislikes are you harboring?

Get Real

Being Real is like being a magnet; people are automatically drawn to it. Whether you like to come in terms with it or not, people see through you, and they know if you are real or not. Aren't you attracted to real people? By being yourself you draw into your life the right people, factors, situations and release the positive energy that will make your very existence meaningful. After all, the whole essence of being YOU is to have the liberty of enjoying yourself; only a real person can enjoy himself/herself. It means getting down to the nitty-gritty of being honest with yourself and your God. Allow yourself to be spontaneous and laugh when you feel like it. That's right, say what's on your mind. And don't pretend to be happy when you're not. Don't put on the chameleon act just to be who you think others want you to be if that's not who you truly are. Being "Real" will make your life far more interesting and less complicated.

Be Cautious and Mindful Whom You Allow Into Your Circle of Influence

OK, so I happen to be a people person. I like meeting new people, engaging in intriguing, intelligent conversations, talking about new ideas, and celebrating our individual successes in life! But sometimes I haven't always been very careful about who I chose to be in my circle of influence, which has created some rather messy problems. When you come in contact with people that test you and try to shake you up it's better to say something that may be considered a little straight forward to see if that person is still is around the next day, rather than play it safe with someone who doesn't respect you! I have weeded out many unsupportive and disrespectful people from my life by doing this exact thing.

Do What You Love

Throughout my life I have never seen more unhappy, unsuccessful, disenchanted, grumpier people than those who are unhappy with what they do for work. It could be that their career was once enjoyable, but has become unbearable for whatever reason. Now they feel stuck and unable to dream of something different for themselves. Mind you, I've been there upon occasion myself, so I'm very familiar with the feelings of holding my breath each day as I clock in and clock out of my miserable job that pays the bills, but doesn't feed my spirit and soul. In my experience these are people that are out of alignment with their true hearts desire. They are the ones that frequent the pharmacy purchasing the latest drug for their most recent ailment or illness. Once again, been there - done that. Or they are the people who choose to blame their circumstances on things outside themselves. This is precisely why you must face your deepest fears and clear a pathway to discover what you truly love, and make doing what you love a reality in your life.

ENJOY YOURSELF. This is the ultimate. "Your life is a fabulous event, rise up to it!"

I've been an entrepreneur for over 28 years. Today I feel extremely grateful that I was able to follow my heart and my gut -- and be my own boss. Through the years I have had my share of ups and downs in business, relationships and health, and now I enjoy sharing what I know to help other entrepreneurial women learn from my experiences so they can integrate their business and personal life in a realistic and healthy fashion.

Melanie Banayat, aka MiliGirl, is a Holistic Health & Nutrition Coach, Business & Lifestyle Designer, and Professional Artist. Visit her site for tips on how to upgrade your wellness style from "Frazzles to Free" - the only style tips that reduce healthcare expenses! http://www.miligirlwellness.com/

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The Power of Investing In Yourself

Do you have a personal development plan? One where you continuously invest in yourself by up-skilling and cross skilling. There are so many options available these days, Some options will require you to invest your time & some money whilst some other options you can invest in yourself with minimal financial outlay however you will have to put in some time and effort. Depending on what you invest in, will determine the results you get and the return on your investment.

If you currently don't have a significant amount of money available currently, don't worry because there are some options for you.

Below are ways that you can invest in yourself at minimal cost;

1. Purchase & Read books on new topics to expand your knowledge in your current area of specialty or in other areas that could give you a new streams of income.

2. Research on the internet for free courses

3. Visit Youtube. There are many free videos that have some valuable content

4. Watch documentaries

5. Subscribe to forums

The challenge with the above options is that unless you map out your plan, it can get time consuming and can be confusing depending on the quality of the information you find! In addition to that you need manage this within your own schedule and you must keep your self accountable to stay on track.

As an alternative and for a financial investment, If you really want to accelerate your personal development and get access to new streams of income, I would suggest you investigate the following options;

1. Look for income generating businesses that leverage the internet & social media and find an expert who has had success in this area.

2. Attend courses by experts in the specific area you want to enhance your skills and knowledge or learn new skills

3. Get a coach or a mentor!

The advantage of getting a coach or a mentor is that they can not only raise your awareness and give you perspective, they can assist you with strategies and help you reach your goals and keep you on track throughout the process. A good coach or mentor will be able to get the best out of you and guide you through to success! Many people are now engaging the services of life coaches and business coaches as part of their personal development plans and are getting some great results.

No matter how you decide to invest in yourself.. one thing is certain, you must invest in yourself to thrive in today's changing economy!

Simon Boutros is a Life & Business Coach, Strategist & Consultant certified in NLP, Hypnotherapy & Time Line Therapy. For more resources and articles go to http://www.successinc.com.au/

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How you create confidence in yourself

Positive thinking tips

Want to focus on your goals to achieve, can every day? You want to keep good mood and generate enough energy to continue in the direction of your dreams? Would you like to feel rejuvenated and conquer the world on a constant basis? Thinking how you feel when you just heard a great presentation, read an awesome book, or one great film seen to? Are you ready to climb the Everest or sell ice to the Eskimos? But the next day or a few days later, melt away the enthusiasm. This is when you need to apply positive thinking to continue.

Here is a how to, that rocket your positive mood, help you focus and generate high motivation. I've used this method, to open and use positive influences. It has helped me catch would on ways that I have missed and would never understand.

Choose, followed by a one-month mental Detox. You stop watching TV: broadcast news; violent, cynical or pessimistic shows; News fear-mongering etc.. If you need a steady diet of everything, what?

Disable the radio you, except when playing great songs or music and without unnecessary bad comments from the radio host. Or better, sing your heart out and hear the birds or the wind. You will be surprised.

Reading prose inspiring you 15 to 30 minutes at breakfast you set in the past for the day.

Get in some practice or more of it to do yourself. You go places instead of drive, Park further away, and go a little. Use the stairs instead of the elevator. If you have a gym, great, you do it.

Avoid the company of negative or pessimistic people. If you have absolutely to meet them, you reduce the time. The less you see them, you are the better way.

Choose your relationships so that you have a pleasant environment of the people, the friendly and positive in life are.

Drink plenty of alkaline water. It helps to release toxins, which are in your body.

Take 15 to 30 minutes per day to check, your goals, what to do and what you are grateful for. Take you this time really to find out where you are on the rise and where you lose. Strengthen the actions that have a positive impact and the removal of those who do not contribute to your efforts.

If the above consequences which promise you I'll watch an amazing difference at the end of the month. Track your successes in a journal and appreciate your refreshing positive attitude and blossoming self-confidence.

Amélie has dealt with a lot of people from all walks of life. It is learned that know the primary tool to success, is to be treated as relations with frequency. It is also found out that a positive attitude in life makes the difference between a winner and loser. If you're interested in reading more about self-confidence and positive can remember you at the going to http://getyourexbackmap.com/category/magicofmakingup/ebook

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Dream of stealers: protect yourself from success thieves

Tonight I was watching an episode of "America's got talent". It was a 42 year old woman who said that she wanted to be always a singer, but her parents sing told her that she could and encourage them to not follow her dream. If it was in their 20s she still wanted to sing, and as they tried, take vocal lessons the teacher said that they start it, was too old and it would never make it as a singer.

Still, the woman has never been on their dream. She never had to carried out above a stage, but since state them on prime-time television always ready to sing to millions of people. She was obviously very nervous and very shy, but when she began to sing the whole audience was deeply moved by the beauty of her voice. When she finished she gave her a standing ovation. The woman was so overwhelmed by the outpouring of love and support from the audience, that they began crying. She could not believe so many people loved her singing so much. Nobody had supported ever encouraged them or their dream, but loved them; The roar of the crowd gave her feedback had they waited their whole lives to hear. It was nice.

The amazing thing about this woman is that it is the exception, not the rule. I do not mean that it is an exception, only because it has a beautiful singing voice. I believe that it is the exception, because they kept persevering, although in their lives, especially "authority" coach, trying so many characters such as her parents and the voice it to their dream discourage.

We all know the feeling something be amazed the US only on the flames of our enthusiasm wiped out with a negative comment, have judgment or lack of encouragement of someone else's heart lies. "Dream thieves" are people who dream to throw wet blankets on other people. These thieves can crash your lofty dreams send million pieces on the floor with a careless Word or thoughtless comment.Once that is done, have only a few of us the pieces together the strength or confidence again and try again.

Dream thieves show up in all forms and shape. You can be our parents, siblings, partner, or best friend. You can come their own lack of self esteem or just plain carelessness from a position of concern, fear of jealous. I ask me often, how many great singer, writer, inventor, actor, artist and other highly talented individuals have simply never discovered because someone somewhere has stolen on the way to her dream. As you get back your dreams and better yet, how keep stolen them in the first place be? Here are some ways to identify your dream, get it back if it has been stolen, and keep you from ever again robbed.

Identify your dream. One way to do this is ask this question: If an object were money and failure was not possible, what would you do? If you have identified it, write it down, give a vision to support Board and most importantly, have no doubt that it can happen in your life!
Only you share your dreams with people who support you. Surround yourself with people, the love and the recommend. If you that someone might not supporting suspect you not them the possibility of your dream to steal by sharing it with them.
Remember, "Nothing ventured, nothing gained". If you do not attempt, success is not an option and failure is a given.
Trust, fear not. Confidence is the bullet-proof vest for Adressdiebstahl dream. Dream of stealers feed on fear, sell and you. By reducing your faith in confidence, not fear you give your dreams grow fertile ground.
Never give up. Sure, you can fall on the way down, but sometimes these challenges are even greater us and our greatest lessons and do better things. If you never again get on the horse after you have fallen out, you will be never somewhere.
Allow never someone making $40,000 per year you say that you can make $100,000! Instead, if you look you managed, to fulfill their dreams. Talk to them about it to read, learn from them, let them.
Keep in mind that there no "-overs" in life. You get a chance, don't sit there not by on the sidelines. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
If you really set you want free, prepare station concern, what other people think. You are no better or smarter than you are, and have only fear failing as everyone else. In addition, no matter how much you think about it, never you control what, so not wasting the effort by trying other people think. Keep the cheerleaders in your life and the naysayers fire. They are not your time and your effort, and they are not value certainly value give up your dreams for!
Encourage others to follow their dreams. The dream Builder should be others for you. You'll be amazed at how empowering this can be!
Get credit. Praise not only the large is for small successes. Do something every day that makes you feel good about themselves. Exercise, take a walk, end of a project, and so on. One of my favorite quotes is by Eleanor Roosevelt. Mrs. Roosevelt said, "one each day on which you scares", i.e., your fears doing face and it anyway. One of the best ways, is to increase your self-esteem to set goals and update. Keep in mind that the journey of a thousand miles begins with one step. Praise themselves and treat yourself credit for each step, you towards your dream, and keep in mind that the journey is as important as the goal!

Who they are, and where they come from, you think this out, just because stealers their truth speak dream, it's the truth, and it certainly needs to be not your truth! The choice is ultimately their. Going, great dream, and remember the words somewhere over the Rainbow "..." "on those who dare to dream really dream...."

Cathleen McCandless is a highly respected national known expert, author, teacher and speaker on the subject of Feng Shui, self-improvement and inner development. With more than twenty years experience, Cathleens unique, no-nonsense and practical approach for Feng Shui has many esteemed publications, including the New York Times, the Washington Post, the San Diego Union-Tribune, the Denver Post, the Houston Chronicle and the Los Angeles Times featured.

Named "the best Feng Shui expert in San Diego" by San Diego Magazine, television appearances Cathleen of radio and television everything from Prime time newscasts on a starring role in the nationwide TV series, Feng Shui life. Her first book, "Feng Shui, makes sense" to the myths and misconceptions related to Feng Shui and offers an abundance of easy-to suggestions of use, to help the reader they create a home that feels as good as it feels!

For more information, visit, and learn more about Feng Shui and what it can do for you, please http://fengshuithatmakessense.com/.

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