Sunday, August 7, 2011

Testing of anger in marriage: knowing when to get time to help it

So how do you know if your partner has anger-management problems? How do you know when to get time to help it? There are some very clear signs where you need to consider. I will be this conversation to start by talking about domestic violence.


Domestic violence


Domestic violence is a very common problem in society as well. But many people know not where the border lies. The limit of unacceptable behavior. In my mind, there are three forms of domestic violence. You are


(1) Physical domestic violence - occurs when a partner is subject to physical violence. For example, meets, burn, hold etc.. This is the most clear form of domestic violence.


(2) Verbal violence - occurs when a partner is verbally aggressive towards the other partner. This occurs when the votes are thrown and they personally attacking the other person with your comments.


(3) Psychological violence - occurs when there are no obvious signs of abuse. For example, no screaming and shouting and not physical attacks. However, is the other partners still worthless feel. It is often done by passive aggressive tendencies. For example, speak to the bottom, the other person. Do not tell them the whole truth. In General try to control them.


Now, we all know what are domestic violence, I is now some behaviors of drill-down, which are clear signs that your partner has anger-management problems


Behaviors


(1) If you are not is more able to have difficult conversations with your partner. And every time that you are trying to solve a problem in your marriage the situation escalated into a shouting and screaming match with the other partner from storms.


(2) If your partner starts more alcohol than normal and is drunk at home. Alcohol is a very common way, the people have to deal with their anger. In general anger outbreaks occur after consuming alcohol was.


(3) Start other areas of life, also suffer. For example, stop going to the gym or at home from work late to work. Problems in relations with other family members.


(4) they begin to suffer from other mental conditions. For example, they may suffer bouts of depression or anxiety disorder.


(5) Physical, verbal or psychological domestic violence


(6) Engage in other negative coping strategies (such as excessive time at work, use of social media, E-mail, SMS, exercise, drugs, sex)


All of these behaviors are only a guide. The best way to determine whether it is time to get some help is your gut feeling. If you, that you are not very well treated believe is, then you should do something about it. It is very important to test your anger in marriage and know when it is time to get the help for everyone's well being.


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Mark is a registered psychologist in Australia and is the author of the e-book, anger management for the modern professional.


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http://angerplanet.org/Anger-Products-Resources/Anger-Management/Anger-Management-e-Book/


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